Make Sure they Know What They are Asking of You!
If you are here, you have either been asked to officiate friend/family members wedding, or your are thinking of asking someone in your life to officiate your ceremony. CONGRATS! No matter which side of the equation you are on, you are probably nervous! The "What the Wedding Couple Should Know" blog series is directed toward the first time officiant, but also provides valuable knowledge to the couple that may be considering this option.
So, you have been asked to be an amateur officiant. Feels kinds weird, huh? Cue the anxiety and fear that goes along with such a huge responsibility… and public speaking… at someone’s life defining event! Not to worry, while on the surface this seems like a monumental task the First-Time Officiant eBook provides everything that you need to make sure that you are well prepared and deliver your ceremony like a pro. We have made all of the first-timer mistakes, so you don't have to!
Your first responsibility as a potential amateur officiant is to make sure the couple knows what they are asking of you, that they understand exactly what an amateur officiant is, and that they have realistic expectations of your performance. In the excitement of an engagement, many couples make hasty emotional decisions when it comes to their big day. The idea of having a friend or family member perform the ceremony seems unique and memorable, and it is. However, you need to put their mental picture of your Oscar worthy performance in check to make sure there are no regrets or surprises down the road. Follow these strategies in this blog series and everyone will be on the same page. Better yet, direct the couple to AmateurOfficiant.com so they can educate themselves!